We all know how important a relationship can be in human’s life and how important sex is in human’s life, but what is the importance of sex in life? Is it essential and important every relationship or is it just too much overrated and not actually important? Should you even care about it?
To answer this question, we have to explore a relationship at first. A relationship is a connection between two persons in which both sides are connected with one another in some way, in our case connected by love & related feelings. Every relationship starts somewhere and goes to some point, we will have to explore that stages of relationship to understand where sex is involved and how important it can be.
Basic stages in a relationship
Always, every relationship starts with interest from one side for the other side, or in rare cases interest from both sides for each other at the same time. When this interest grows and becomes bigger & bigger in a positive way, it turns into liking that person. This can be labeled as second early stage.
The third stage is when your like grows even bigger and evolves into something more, something like an addiction. One person becomes addicted to another and starts to care about him or her more and more, sometimes even more than his or her own self. That is still an early stage but one’s feelings are already strong.
The fourth stage is when addicted person starts to work on the person he/she likes. An addicted person tries to introduce his/her self better to that person who he/she is addicted to, tries to make that person interested in him/her and finally turn that one into his/her own lover. That is one of the hardest parts where many fail and reason why many relationships end before they even begin.
The fifth stage is once the addicted person shows his/her feelings to the one he/she is addicted to, stage where both of them has to think and make their decision – continue their life as a couple or continue their life as single persons.
The sixth stage is when these two persons, both made their decision to be together, to continue their life as a couple and finally start dating each other. This stage can go on for weeks, months or sometimes for even years until it will evolve to next required stage.
The seventh stage is when these two person’s relationship got closer enough for them to have a closer physical relationship – sex. This is the closest stage any relationship can get without the final stage…
The eighth and final stage – marriage & living together, hopefully forever. In this stage the two persons are very close to each other, so close that they even decided to spend the remaining time together.
As we see, a complete, healthy relationship must comes to a point where sex is part of it and required for evolving further. So, to put it simple, sex is required in every relationship and it is very important – it is necessary part of it.But may not be required right now, depending on current stage.
When it is time for sex in a relationship?
Now the question is, when you should have sex,at what stage of a relationship?
Aside from health benefits of sex which makes it necessary for every human, it is also very important overall factor of a relationship, but may not be really required for your relationship’s current stage and in some cases, may be even bad for it.
If your relationship is just getting started or you are already on the sixth level where dating is just a new thing, then there really is no need to have sex already, you can wait to get closer to your partner, closer enough to be 100% open and comfortable around him/her. It may be even bad for your relationship as sex with your partner will never be good enough until you will be 100% open, confident and comfortable to be around him/her and talk about anything, even about sensitive topics such as sex.
If you are on the stage sixth for a long time and alreadya dating is an usual thing, if you already feel like your partner is also your close friend, if you both feel comfortable when talking about sensitive topics, then probably it is a good time to have sex. Just like being too hasty, also being too late is not good thing as the importance of sex in relationship is huge and it effects how it goes.